human rights

Yearning to Breathe Free: The letter I sent to my Senators

The following is a letter sent to my Senators (Chris Coons and Tom Carper) regarding the restriction on immigration from majority Muslim countries.

Dear Senator,

I know that you are fighting for us. I know that the current political situation in this country has given you no shortage of issues that need your attention and your energy, but I implore you to consider one more. Yesterday, our president signed an executive order restricting refugees and immigrants from primarily Muslim countries. As you know, conflicts in the Middle East have displaced millions. It is the human rights crisis of age and we cannot fail to meet it. These are human beings in need of the security and stability of a home.

We used to be a nation that cared for vulnerable people. We used to be a country that was guided, not by fear and selfishness, but by the moral certitude that what is right is worth defending. I believe in this country and I believe that in the hearts of the majority of its citizens there is still a desire to be a place of refuge, a safe place in a dangerous world. To shut our doors now is to give in to an irrational fear. We condemn the victims of violence because we are afraid. We would rather hide behind our borders than live up to our principles.

I think that we are so much better than that. I know that we have the strength and courage to be the nation that stands up to bullies and protects those they prey upon. I believe that we cannot claim to be a great nation while we allow our enemies to dictate the limits of our generosity and we shrink behind walls and xenophobia. Those who seek a home in this country are our allies and to deny them that home based on their religion is an affront to our legacy as pilgrims and peacemakers.

I know that you are already hard at work for Delaware but I ask that you take a stand on this issue. Please make public your disapproval of this cowardly order. Please be the voice for the people of Delaware who believe that this nation of immigrants is still open to all who are “yearning to breathe free.”

Thank you,


Letter from a Texan to her Governor

Let me be among the many who I’m sure at this time are drawing comparisons between their emotions on hearing about Paris, and their emotions on September Eleventh. I was 12 or 13 then, and though it’s far from a harrowing story, the memory that stands out most sharply to me is that of standing in a grocery store line, maybe the day after, and watching all the adults talk to one another. Strangers talking to each other, not with polite nothing conversation but with real vulnerability. We were all terrified and we saw no value in hiding that from one another. I think that was the first time I realized grown-ups still get scared.

But the reason I bring this up is not to attempt to inject myself into the tragedy. It’s because I viscerally remember at that point feeling like something was irrevocably broken in the world. I felt, for the first time a true lack of security, and in that grocery store it seemed perfectly evident to me that this was the way the world would be forever.

A month later the adults were back to saying nothing to each other.

I don’t want to be the alarmist here, because I know we all crave that sense of normalcy and it’s a very natural thing to crave. It’s unhealthy to live in a state of constant stress or paranoia. What I want is not for people to dwell but maybe just remember what it feels like to be right now to be insecure, to feel that danger could be everywhere.

My governor, Governor Greg Abbott, has joined a handful of fellow state leaders in proclaiming that Texas will not accept any more Syrian refugees. No doubt this decision was built by that paranoia I’ve outlined above, but I cannot say fervently enough that the governors and I do not agree on this. We are both coming from the same place, the raw human place of horror at tragedy, but disagree wholly on what to do with that horror.

Remembering how I felt at the Brookshire’s on September, 12th of 2001, helps me because It gives me a point of empathy for those whose entire lives have been plagued by what I received only the shadow of a taste of on that day. These refugees fled their homes, risked their lives on an unimaginably arduous and harrowing bid for freedom, and they did so for the same security the Governor Abbott undoubtedly believes he defending for Texans.

These refugees are running from ISIS. The failing of these Governors is in a misinterpretation of who and what the enemy is. It is ISIS who wants this to be a culture war.  It is in the best interest of ISIS to promote wide spread mistrust between the mainstream Islamic faith and the rest of the world. Their entire strategy of fear and radicalization depends on perpetuating the lie that conflicts between religions and ethnic groups are inherently and inevitable. Western leaders are only spreading this message when they do things like proclaim that they will not accept refugees.

I want Governor Abbott and the others to understand that the group that has experienced the most violence at the hand of Islamic Extremists are other Muslims, among whom are the very refugees that he is saying he would refuse. It couldn’t hurt at this point to invoke the old phrase, “the enemy of my enemy is my friend.” I understand the point of security and the desire to know for sure who we are allowing into our country. I understand the risk that an extremist might attempt to slip in with the refugees. But the solution is not to shut our borders and hope the violence stays away.

That is the danger of forgetting the insecurity we feel right now. Because ISIS is not contained, it has come to the West and it will attack the West again, whether or not we turn back the refugees. Now, while we are in this moment of clarity granted to us by horror, we have a very important decision to make. Do we shut down with fear and allow this to become the clash of culture ISIS needs it be? Or do we open ourselves to an alliance with people who want peace so badly that they have risked everything to attain it? To paraphrase the president, this is not a war of one nation against another, or one religion against another, ISIS is waging a war against civilization as a whole.  Now let’s be civilized and realize that peace in the Middle East is impossible if we do not do everything in our power to protect peaceful Middle Easterners.